THE SILENCE IS DEAFENING.
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Clearly there is something wrong with her. Something is bothering her. But how do you start a conversation without setting her off? How can you be there for her without making things worse?
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YOUR OPENING LINE IS CRUCIAL.
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So you go with the all-time favorite parenting greeting. “How was your day?” Her response is an eye roll and a curt AND completely obligatory “FINE”. She gets up from the couch and stomps up to her room and closes the door behind her.
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SHE HAS MADE HER STANCE FIRM. SHE WANTS HER SPACE.
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Because you love her, you really want to know what is bothering her. You want her to talk to you and to open up about her day. You want her to share with you her highs and lows and ups and downs. You haven’t seen her all day after all!
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YOU WANT TO KNOW.